I agree that like rugby, Referees should be shown the same respect. In my days of playing junior rugby it was drilled into us that you address the ref as "Sir"
On more than one occasion players were asked to leave the field of play and calm down for being rude to the ref, offering backchat or arguing a decision.
The reson i feel that football players have no respect for Refs is because they are overpaid spoilt children who are to used to getting their own way.
A change amongst refs where the minute a player becomes abusive or rude, and is shown a red card would send a firm message that referees should be obeyed and respected.
Overnight the game would change and refs would be able to control the game, not have to deal with silly little boys